“Life after the
Interval”
Hello Everyone,
Yes, the first question which would be coming to your mind after reading the
title is “What kind of interval?” Yes, somebody would have even guessed right
but anyways, the answer here is, as we have intermission in movies there is
also an Intermission or Interval in our life and as like movies continue after
the intermission we also continue our life after that interval. The life, which
starts after the interval, which I am referring here, is “The Beautiful Married
Life”. So today, I am going to put down some words, thoughts which comes to my
mind which everyone of us have observed but few of them realize in right way
and make their way peacefully. Let me put my words. Moreover, these are very
general thoughts from my mind and so just read and think. I know everybody has
it’s own point of view. Here is my point of view. There you go :).....
Man or Woman has
always been a fond of love and affection. Definitely, everybody needs it. I
should say not only human beings but also every living and non-living things
needs love and affection. But today here we would be discussing about a
relationship between a boy and a girl after the marriage.
It really brings us
into a different kind of world. After working long hours in office when both
come home in the evening just a full fledge “hug” can relieve you from all your
stress. Yes, it is true that after marriage two souls combine and become one but
the bodies definitely needs its own space. Its not always both will like the
same things, Yes, it can happen when one don’t like the thing which his/her
partner likes. At this stage he/she has to understand the situation and act
accordingly and feel good. He/she should not feel bad but respect about his/her
liking or disliking. The ultimate thing in the marriage is “Mutual
Understanding”. It feels great when both understand each other. I know the feeling of getting to know
your partner does not comes spontaneously but actually that is the step where
you have to observe your partner. Actually, wife’s happiness should always lie
in her husband’s happiness and definitely sure shot vice versa. That will be
the true step for the second part of life or life after the interval to be full
of happiness, love and affection.
By saying here that
do as per the liking of his or her liking and disliking I do not mean that you
bound yourself and stop doing what your heart says. No, it should be never like
that, let your partner do what he/she wants in life. You just need to be
walking side by side at every step he/she goes because if he/she say you that
or not but he/she always need support from you. Sometimes they are not able to
speak up but understand them, read their eyes and act on it before they come
and ask you to stand beside them. So it’s all understanding, which matters. The
only thought right now, which comes to, my mind regarding the relationship is
that “Trust is like a Paper, once it’s crumpled, it can’t be perfect”. “Trust”,
this five-letter word is really a very heavy word. We all know that if he/she
breaks his/her trust not only the interval but also the second part of life is
completely ruined. Some even loose their beautiful life because of this
nonsense act of his/her partner. That is also true those who do that are never
ever happy after that in their life. Their life becomes miserable. Because that
is true that the good or bad you do to someone, you have to face the result of
it before you leave this Mother Earth. There is no hell or heaven.
So the ultimate
thing is know your partner very well, understand your partner give him/her love
in abundance every single minute if possible, talk with him/her, discuss the
problems, share the problems, come up to a solution and moreover don’t forget
to keep saying those “three little Golden Words” “I Love You”. These are magic
words, which we all know very well and please keep repeating them once, twice,
thrice and thousand times. These words have powerful energy within them.
Please never ever
mix the professional life with the personal life. Many people bring the load of
their office work to home and continue their work even after office hours.
Please folks, it can definitely wait. Life with him/her is more important than
your professional work. If she stayed at home all day, then after coming to
home, talk to her, feel her happiness and plan to spend that very beautiful
evening time together. Don’t just take out your office frustration on her and
spill poison on your beautiful evening and relationship. If both are working
professionals then it depends on their mutual understanding. But simply, just
spend time together and feel good.
Moreover, this
interval brings more stars to the life of that wonderful couple when both
change their title to Mother and Father. Yes, I am speaking of the entry of the
baby in their life. It is the true, energetic, happiest, memorable time in both
of their life. It’s the dream hour for both of them for which they have been planning.
There is no limit to the happiness of this hour when the baby arrives in this beautiful
world. There are tons of activities when both get engaged in welcoming their
newborn baby. Do it. Have fun and live life as you want. Now the family number
increases by plus one. Oh yes, sometimes plus two if it is twins ha ha..
Anyways, I think I
will have to end up here or else I will keep writing and will divert the topic
into something else. But yes, the ultimate thing is “mutual understanding”
which will make this life after the interval full of love, joy and happiness.
The small things she does, the morning walk with her, little fights and then
attempts to bring that smile again on her face, sharing, caring, being extra
cautious during the baby time, that gossips sitting at the fire place for
hours, cup of coffee, planning a trip, packing tons of clothes, shopping list,
morning breakfast ha ha there is no end to it. It is not compulsory that both
have same thoughts, if yes its good but if not then don’t worry you got to
learn more from your life partner. You will have more things to explore in each
other rather then having all things in common and complete match. Its good,
everybody is unique on this earth. Go ahead and explore each other.
So finally, however
you want you can give shape to this life after the interval but yes, just love,
love and love. Make this interval magnificent and memorable period of your life
because if you think you can you will definitely make it because the central
idea is it is your life and you can shape it as you like. So live life at it’s
fullest and simply make it happen. I know everybody can.
I cannot end
without saying a thought because I am just crazy about great thoughts because
they are not just words; they are someone’s whole life real experience. The one
I remember now is as follows:
“You create your
own Universe as you go along.”
-Winston Churchill
-
“What you think,
what you feel and what you manifests is always a match.
- Rhonda Byrne
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